{"id":7960,"date":"2017-11-25T12:01:21","date_gmt":"2017-11-25T11:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.skmisia.ch\/?p=7960"},"modified":"2019-04-08T21:08:47","modified_gmt":"2019-04-08T20:08:47","slug":"marian-kuffa-zastavme-zlo-z-istanbulu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.skmisia.ch\/?p=7960","title":{"rendered":"MARI\u00c1N KUFFA – Zastavme zlo z Istanbulu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Istambulsk\u00fd dohovor<\/a>\u00a0– pln\u00e9 znenie<\/p>\n

U\u017e sa zdalo, \u017ee diskusia o Istanbulskom dohovore na Slovensku ut\u00edchne. Stala sa politick\u00fdm kapit\u00e1lom. \u010co u\u017e po tom, \u017ee komis\u00e1rka za \u013eudsk\u00e9 pr\u00e1va Jourov\u00e1 ju prepa\u0161ovala do Eur\u00f3pskeho parlamentu. Preto sa c\u00edtim povinn\u00fd reagova\u0165 na v\u00fdzvu obsiahnut\u00fa v Istanbulskom dohovore a zoznamova\u0165 s n\u00edm verejnos\u0165.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u00e1m mo\u017enos\u0165 sledova\u0165 mnoho man\u017eelstiev, ich v\u00fdvoj, ale aj ich \u010dast\u00e9 konce. Teda v\u00a0ur\u010ditom zmysle aj n\u00e1silie, ktor\u00e9ho obe\u0165ou s\u00fa naj\u010dastej\u0161ie deti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Istanbulsk\u00fd dohovor sa vymedzuje predov\u0161etk\u00fdm na n\u00e1silie p\u00e1chan\u00e9 na \u017een\u00e1ch. Ostatn\u00e9 formy s\u00edce deklarat\u00edvne berie do \u00favahy a\u00a0doslovne sa na\u0148 odvol\u00e1va v\u00a0niektor\u00fdch ustanoveniach. Napriek tomu vych\u00e1dza z\u00a0premisy, \u017ee \u017eena je slab\u0161ie stvorenie\u00a0menej chr\u00e1nen\u00e9 biologick\u00fdmi danos\u0165ami ako mu\u017e, ktor\u00fd vo svojej podstate je agres\u00edvnej\u0161\u00ed (bojovn\u00edk, lovec a\u00a0pod.). Tento typ\u00a0n\u00e1silia ozna\u010duje\u00a0ako rodovo podmienen\u00e9 n\u00e1silie. Pri tejto pr\u00edle\u017eitosti zav\u00e1dza pojem rod ako s\u00fabor soci\u00e1lneho spr\u00e1vania sa jedinca a\u00a0ktor\u00e9 si v\u00a0kone\u010dnom d\u00f4sledku m\u00f4\u017eeme zvoli\u0165 sami na rozdiel od biologick\u00e9ho pojmu pohlavia. Nemienim polemizova\u0165 o\u00a0tom, \u010di to je pravda, alebo nie. Faktom zost\u00e1va, \u017ee n\u00e1siln\u00edkmi b\u00fdvaj\u00fa aj mu\u017ei, ale aj \u017eeny. Osobitnou kateg\u00f3riou \u017eien s\u00fa matky jedn\u00e9ho z\u00a0man\u017eelov, \u017eia\u013e \u010dastej\u0161ie man\u017eelky.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nespokojnos\u0165 s\u00a0man\u017eelom svojej ukoristenej dc\u00e9ry prejavuj\u00fa ticho, niekedy hlasno, ale vytrvalo. Eroduj\u00fa vz\u0165ah, ktor\u00fd by mali podporova\u0165. Chc\u00fa len \u201edobro vlastnej dc\u00e9ry\u201c alebo syna, ale rozb\u00edjaj\u00fa krehk\u00e9. Neh\u013eadia na deti, ktor\u00e9 najviac trpia kr\u00edzou.<\/span><\/p>\n

Po rozpade man\u017eelstva, a\u00a0to aj tak\u00e9ho, ktor\u00e9 bolo uzatvoren\u00e9 pred olt\u00e1rom, mu\u017e sa ocit\u00e1 na ulici. Za\u010d\u00edna jeho trag\u00e9dia. K\u00a0vlastn\u00fdm de\u0165om sa nedost\u00e1va, je z\u00a0toho ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00fd. Aj dlho po rozpade st\u00e1le spom\u00edna na \u010dasy ako na to moje (die\u0165a, byt, z\u00e1hrada, ale aj man\u017eelka). Za\u010d\u00edna bl\u00fadi\u0165 a\u00a0\u010dasto vstupuje do nov\u00e9ho, n\u00e1hradn\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu. Tu u\u017e sa neh\u013ead\u00ed na korektnos\u0165, ale sk\u00f4r na okam\u017eit\u00fd prospech.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e1silie plod\u00ed nov\u00e9 n\u00e1silie. Nov\u00fdm n\u00e1sil\u00edm je aj nov\u00fd vz\u0165ah nahr\u00e1dzaj\u00facim p\u00f4vodn\u00fd vz\u0165ah. Lebo by nevznikol, keby prv\u00fd by nebol nap\u00e1dan\u00fd a znivo\u010den\u00fd \u201es\u00a0dobr\u00fdm \u00famyslom\u201c. Tu plat\u00ed z\u00e1sada, ktor\u00e1 m\u00e1lokedy zaznie nahlas: Ten, kto odmieta man\u017eelstvo a\u00a0men\u00ed ho najprv len na man\u017eelsk\u00e9 povinnosti (l\u00e1ska nem\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 povinnos\u0165ou!) a\u00a0nesk\u00f4r aj toto ru\u0161\u00ed je\u00a0spoluvinn\u00fd za ka\u017ed\u00e9 zlyhanie partnera<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Toto plat\u00ed aj v\u00a0pr\u00edpade rodi\u010da man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho partnera.<\/span><\/p>\n

Z\u00a0pozadia sa vyn\u00e1ra ot\u00e1zka \u2013 na\u010do je n\u00e1m Istanbulsk\u00fd dohovor, ktor\u00fd sa sna\u017e\u00ed rie\u0161i\u0165 n\u00e1silie pr\u00edkazmi, ke\u010f napr. kres\u0165anstvo toto rie\u0161i u\u017e dve tis\u00edcro\u010dia l\u00e1skou. Konkr\u00e9tne spom\u00edna aj spoluzodpovednos\u0165 a spoluvinu za zlyhanie partnera. Vych\u00e1dza pritom s\u00a0ove\u013ea d\u00e1vnej\u0161ej sk\u00fasenosti zo \u017eidovsk\u00e9ho rie\u0161enia, z\u00a0Moj\u017ei\u0161ovho z\u00e1kona a\u00a0v\u00a0toto pr\u00edpade hovor\u00ed o\u00a0tvrdosti srdca!<\/span><\/p>\n

Stanislav Trnovec<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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